A Nurturing Spirit reflection on the unseen work of becoming.
There is something about a tree that feels like a picture of the human life.
We tend to notice what happens above the ground. We see the height of the tree, the shape of its branches, the green of its leaves, and eventually the fruit it produces. We can see the evidence of growth, and we call that growth.
But a tree is growing in two directions at once.
Long before its branches reach toward the sky, it’s roots are pressing downward into the soil. They move into darkness. They encounter resistance. They find hard ground, move around obstacles, and slowly establish the foundation that will eventually support everything we see above the surface.
And most of that work is invisible.
We rarely thing about the roots when we admire the tree. We do not stand beneath a tree and celebrate how much effort went into its unseen growth. We simply enjoy the shade. We admire the beauty. We wait for the fruit.
Perhaps we do the same thing with our own lives.
We want the visible evidence. We want to know that our work is paying off. We want the answer, the breakthrough, the finished product, the beautiful harvest.
But some of the most important seasons of our lives do not look like growth at all.
They can feel like being buried.
There are seasons when we are doing the quiet work of becoming without much recognition. We may be learning patience. Rebuilding something that was broken. Letting go of an old way of living. Developing strength. Becoming more honest about what matters. Learning to trust when we cannot yet see where the path is leading.
And sometimes that work happens alone.
There may be no applause for it. No one may know how hard it is. There may be no obvious evidence that anything is changing.
But hidden does not mean inactive.
The seed beneath the soil is not failing because we cannot see it. The roots are not wasting their time because they are growing in the dark.
They are preparing the tree for what comes next.
I think this is something worth remembering when life feels slow or uncertain: not every seasons is meant to produce visible fruit.
Some seasons are for putting down roots.
And roots take time.
They grow downward before they can fully support what grows upward. They create a foundation before there is anything impressive to look at.
So if you are in a season that feels hidden, resist the temptation to assume that nothing is happening.
Maybe you are not buried.
Maybe you are being rooted.
Maybe the unseen work you are doing now is preparing you for a life that will eventually have more room to grow—upward, outward, and toward the light.
And when the fruit finally comes, perhaps we will understand that the harvest was never the whole story.
The roots were part of the story too.
Nurturing Spirit 